Amanda Kloots never planned to travel solo with a toddler.

Shes also honest about the struggle.

Some of them were celebrities, like Selma Blair and Sarah Michelle Gellar.

Amanda Kloots and Elvis hold hands as he walks along a bench at the pier

Elvis Cordero wears Zara shirt and overalls; Amanda Kloots wears Staud sweater and Zara tank.Jessica Sample/Travel + Leisure

Many of them were regular people, including other moms, who could relate on some level.

Kloots refers to them as the Instagram moms, and she still reaches out to them foradvice.

You put it under your seat and it has these extenders and a little mattress.

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Even the Instagram moms couldnt save her, however, from what was to come.

And I was like, Im covered in vomit!

Now, airplanes are one of Elviss passions.

Amanda Kloots and her son, Elvis share moments on Malibu Pier in Malibu, California on a sunny day.

That is the blessing.

That is the blessing.

That is family travel, after all: the highs, the lows, the growth.

Elvis holds a camera to take a picture

Elvis Cordero wears Old Navy tops and Rylee & Cru shorts.Jessica Sample/Travel + Leisure

The happy moments that become shared memories, and the disastrous ones that eventually turn into inside jokes.

And when you land at JFK and you’re still in love with that person, get married.

I was like, When are we going to do that?

Amanda Kloots snaps a photo on a polaroid camera of her son Elvis on a hotel balcony suite

Amanda Kloots wears Le Superbe from Neiman Marcus, Beverly Hills at the Malibu Beach Inn.Jessica Sample/Travel + Leisure

I have a business, youre in shows, what are you talking about?

What universe are you living in?

We dont have time to do that, or the money or anything.

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What are you thinking?

We were very different people, but we traveled very well together.

But there were two days in South Africa that stood out among the rest.

Nick Cordero and Amanda Kloots on their honeymoon

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Just the most perfect days.

If it’s possible for you to travel, travel.

“If you could go, go.

Amanda Kloots and Elvis play in the sand together on Carbon Beach in Malibu

If you’ve got the option to travel, travel.

Sometimes, I just need to get out of my environment, she said.

Especially, for me, sometimes weekends still are hard.

Amanda Kloots and her son, Elvis share a moment on the rocks of Carbon Beach in Malibu

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And for Kloots, theres no place more healing than the coast.

It makes me happy.

Kloots said they spend most weekends on the beach in Malibu when theyre not traveling.

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Its so good for him, he cant really get into trouble, she said.

He can just run around, find shells.

Kloots hopesHawaiimight be the next stop on their long list of mother-son adventures, but who knows?

Amanda Kloots and Elvis hold hands and walk on the beach in Malibu

For a duo as dynamic as this one, the possibilities are endless.

Amanda Kloots and her son, Elvis hold ice cream in front of the Surfrider Studios

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